Saturday, 13 February 2010

• help me choose my valentine. im so confused :(

  I went from being dateless on Valentine's day, to having 3 options.
  
  I've been in love with the first girl for years, and we were really serious (we've talked about marriage) but she left me for another guy, and she fluctuates with liking me and then liking him ad infinitum. It seems like she's only putting interest now because I have other options, and she's afraid she'll lose me for good. I'm afraid I'll lose her for good to the other guy if I don't choose her. I also think that she won't do anything physical, at least not unless we somehow get back together at some point.
  
  Girl 2 was my first real crush, and we were both really into each other a long time ago. Well, that is, before I messed things up (trust me, it was really bad). This is the first time in years that she's been interested in me, and she's indicated that this is probably just a one night thing. I'm afraid she'll lose interest for good if I don't choose her.
  
  Girl 3 is just some girl I've known for a while, but have never gotten close to. She's really flakey, but she seems to like me. I'm not really sure where I stand with her, and she may have an incorrect image of me built up in her mind, but I think it could turn into a relationship. I'm afraid that if I choose her and then don't live up to her image, she'll get turned off.
  
  I get the feeling girls 1 and 3 (and maybe girl 2 but I don't think so) are expecting this big extravagantly expensive Valentine's day from me, and I don't think I can make that happen a day before Valentine's day. If I choose wrong, I'll become self-loathing and probably completely broke by monday. I'm leaning towards girl 2 because I'm hoping she isn't expecting too much from me, but I could be completely wrong and I'm afraid she'll get turned off just as easily if I don't do something big. what do I do? how do I choose?

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